CoffeeShop "Silver Violet " Lightroom Preset Set!

I wanted to mention that Pretty Presets has a free webinar this Sunday called "All About Templates + Exporting in Lightroom".  If you are interested in attending you should sign-up soon as the spots are limited.
Pretty Presets also has a great tutorial for installing presets for new Lightroom users.  I also receive their free newsletter which contains great tutorials and tricks/tips. I love Pretty Presets!
Now, on to my post and freebie for today.

I was playing around in Lightroom this weekend and created this really cool preset set that I want to share with you. This Lightroom preset set has two presets that turn images into really lovely silver B&W's with a hint of violet.

The boys called this edit "Silver Violet". They love to sit besides me and watch me edit and experiment. They have started playing in PSE and happily they are as nerdy as their mom.


Today I spent some time going through old images from when we lived out in the country (2005-2012). Until recently it made me quite sad looking back at all of those happy images I captured during those seven years.  I really had a difficult time with our move.  I grew up in the woods and always pictured myself living on a farm with my family.  My boys' early childhood was spent playing on those fields.

I have always had  problems with change, big or small.  However, my boys never looked back, other than occasionally mentioning that they miss playing on the hay bales.  My kids are wiser than me and live in the present and don't waste time thinking about (or regretting) the past.  I love that about them. They are always teaching me such important life lessons.

Today as I was looking for some images for this post I realized that for the first time in a long time I felt joy while looking through these older photos. They were wonderful years and I am so happy that we were able to experience them together.  And now we are making new joyful memories in our new house.  Life is good.  :-)

Download the CoffeeShop "Silver Violet" Lightroom preset set. You can also download it here.

Do you want to download my favorite CoffeeShop PSE/Photoshop Actions and Lightroom Presets (including this set!) or Design Elements in one convenient zipped file AND help support this blog? Just click here for my action pack or here for a download of some of my most popular design elements, storyboards, and textures.

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CoffeeShop Tutorial: Creating "Hand-Painted" Design Patterns for Custom Digital Paper!

Before I go into my post, I wanted to mention that Photographer Depot has a huge retirement sale on photographer templates.  Check them out if you want to stock up on new templates!

Today I have a really fun Photoshop/PSE tutorial where I show you how to turn a photo or clipart illustration into a "hand-painted" pattern and use that pattern to create you own custom digital papers, logo designs, storyboard decorations, etc.

You can download a shamrock pattern and a beautiful digital paper set I created earlier in this post.  A great place to get royalty free images and clip art for creating your own custom designs are Pixabay and Clker.

CoffeeShop "Hand-Painted" Custom Digital Paper Tutorial:

I found this really nice shamrock image and wanted to give it a "painted" effect, turn it into a Photoshop pattern, and create some quick and easy digital paper.

Turn Image into "Hand-Painted Design": I wanted to remove the white background, so I used the Magic Wand (W), clicked on the white area to select it, double-clicked on the Background layer to turn it into "Layer 0", and pressed delete to delete the white background.

You can't delete the white area unless you change the Background layer into a new layer like I did in the screenshot above.

Now the background is transparent.

Painterly Effect:  I went to Filter, Topaz Labs, Topaz Impressions.  You can also use any artistic filter found in the Photoshop/PSE filter gallery, but I really like using the Impression plug-in filter in my design work.

If you are interested in purchasing Topaz Impression you can use the coupon code: coffeeshop15 for 15% off your purchase (can be used on any Topaz product).

I picked the Oil Painting III filter for this tutorial and pressed "OK".

Making the Pattern:  Then I used the lasso tool to individually select all three shamrocks on the background layer and Ctrl-J them to their own layer.  I made the canvas a 500px square and make an extra copy of the left and right shamrock and moved all of the shamrocks around to fill the canvas as seen above.

After I had them arrange as I wanted, I merged everything to keep the background translucent (make sure to not flatten the image).

Then I went to Edit, Define Pattern and saved it.

Creating the Digital Paper:  Make a new 10 inch square document (240dpi) and fill it with your color of choice.  Then add a Pattern adjustment layer.

Select your new shamrock pattern (you can download this one on this post), adjust the size to taste, then flatten and save your new digital paper!

You can add stripes or other designs and textures to create you own custom paper, so don't be afraid to play around.  Have fun creating your own custom painted digital designs!

Do you want to download my favorite CoffeeShop PSE/Photoshop Actions and Lightroom Presets or Design Elements in one convenient zipped file AND help support this blog? Just click here for my action pack or here for a download of some of my most popular design elements, storyboards, and textures.

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CoffeeShop "Indigo Ink" Photoshop/PSE Action!

I wanted to let you guys know I am posting a little newsletter freebie for this Monday.  It is a really cute shamrock Facebook cover. If you haven't had a chance to sign-up yet for the CoffeeShop free newsletter with Jill Wellington and me, you can do so on Jill or my sidebar.  It comes out every Monday morning and we usually have a little editing freebie for our subscribers.  All past freebies I create for the newsletter can be downloaded at any time, so don't worry if you are a new subscriber.

Since the weather has been gloomy and rainy the last week I have been motivated to spend more time on the computer. I wrote a few new actions and presets and also designed some digital paper sets, all which I will release over this week.  I hope to have a new freebie posted every day.

I love being ahead for a change.  My creativity comes and goes like the wind, so when it strikes I end up spending hours and hours of nerdy pleasurable time on the computer. I really do love creating things for this blog and I am so thankful that you help make it possible.

Today I have a new Photoshop/PSE action called "Indigo Ink".  I always love to read about the newest trends in the photography and design world, and I was inspired to write this new action after reading this post about the newest love for indigo.

This action has three layers and you can adjust them to taste.  I love the moody blues of this edit.  I think this action is really stunning on landscape images, but I also like it on outdoor portraits that have really good lighting.

I can't wait for you to see my  newest Lightroom preset which I am releasing this week.  And please post your before and afters (and link your photography sites) on my Facebook page, I love to see your photography art.

Download the CoffeeShop Indigo Ink Photoshop/PSE action.  You can also download it here.

Do you want to download my favorite CoffeeShop PSE/Photoshop Actions and Lightroom Presets or Design Elements in one convenient zipped file AND help support this blog? Just click here for my action pack or here for a download of some of my most popular design elements, storyboards, and textures.

For complete info on installing all of my actions, click here.

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"This and That" Friday: Unsocialized Dog and Socialized Kids

We have been really lucky the last weeks compared to much of the our country, which is covered in snow.  Our temperatures have gone from the high 20's to the low 70's (crazy, right?) but lately the weather has been pretty dreary with only a few days of sunshine.  But no matter the weather, I try to bring the boys and the dog on a walk every day.  

We love to bring Blackberry walking out on the greenbelt behind our neighborhood, but once off-leash she doesn't listen.  I call her, she guiltily glances at me, tucks her tail between her legs, and continues to go where she wants to go.  Usually this is not a problem because no one is out there and she always comes back (when she is ready), but occasionally someone else is out there walking their own dog off-leash and that is when trouble ensues.  

Blackberry is a shelter-dog and was stuck in a cage as a puppy for almost ten months. No one wanted to adopt her as she was black (the shelter is full of black lab-mixes), had mange, and constant diarrhea.  When we went to go look at the dogs most of the "good' ones were gone for an adoption day at Petsmart.  One of the guys there said they did have a dog in the back that was sweet but they hadn't been able to adopt out (for the obvious issues stated above).   

For some crazy reason we agreed to meet her, instantly feel in love, and took her home.  Yes, I took home a dog that was noted to have mange and constant diarrhea.  What was I thinking???  However, the vet cured her mange and we found out her stomach issues completely resolved once she was out of a tiny cage surrounded by crazy barking dogs.  Poor thing had a nervous stomach.

She is an incredibly sweet dog and a loving member of our family, but due to her past she is terrified of other dogs.  Dog socialization has become completely impossible as when she gets scared (a dog looks at her), she will go on the offensive...  Which unfortunately she did the other day while walking on the greenbelt.  A neighbor was walking his tiny fluffy dogs off-leash, they ran up to Blackberry yapping away, started jumping underneath her, and she completely lost it and all Hades broke lose.

Luckily we were able to get them separated and no one was hurt, but I realized that Blackberry could not be off-leash in public areas anymore. I had noticed that many of our neighbors were walking their big dogs without any leashes. I assumed they were just really well-behaved pets, but after talking to them I found out their dogs are trained to behave with E-collars.  Yes, SHOCK COLLARS!  In desperation I decided to try one out.

I went to Amazon, read tons of glowing reviews ("I was going to get rid of my dog and now she is an angel!"), and purchased this collar.  I went with this midrange-priced one because it can reach 300 yards, has rechargeable batteries, and is waterproof.

Within 10 minutes (and one shock on number 2), Blackberry was completely leash-free.  Now I can walk anywhere in the neighborhood with her and she makes sure to stay within eyesight (usually just a few steps in front of me) and comes instantly when I call her.  I haven't had to shock her at all and if she is slow to listen I beep the collar and she instantly comes to me.  It is unbelievable how this little collar has changed our life.  Now it is such a pleasure to take her out for walks and she is much happier as she isn't stuck on a leash.  She is not dog-socialized and never will be, but now she runs over to me and I can "protect" her from the mini-yapping dogs.

Talking about socialization, I had a comment on my blog the other day that I was ruining my boys because I was homeschooling them.  The person commenting said that school wasn't really about education, but absolutely necessary to socialize children.  I have heard this same comment often (even from friends and family) and I just have to ask myself: "Why do so many people assume my kids are little friendless hermits?".

First of all, I personally do not believe school properly socializes children for adult life.  In the "real world" you aren't usually stuck with 10-30 people your same culture, age, and socioeconomic status.  School socializes kids for more school, not life after school.  :-)

Second, I don't know about you, but when I was in school my best friends were usually the neighborhood kids, not my school classmates.  In school we spent so much time rushing around because of that darn annoying bell that we didn't have much time to hang out and talk.  But when I got home I would play with the boys and girls in my neighborhood for hours and hours, uninterrupted by adults or bells.

My neighborhood was an interesting mix of kids and we all played together.  If someone was a bully, you didn't play with them.  If someone was small and needed a boost, you boosted them.  If someone cheated you called them on it and stopped playing with them.  If someone was too rough, you went and played with someone else.

As "free-range kids" we managed our after school/weekend time ourselves, without any parents (or teachers) planning our play or interfering.  I didn't get to hand-select my friends; they became my friends because they were there and willing to play with me.  Kind of like life, right?

So back to my poor boys missing out on socialization.  Our neighborhood is full of kids, many of them boys aged 5-15 with a healthy mix of home, private, and public-school education.   Any nice afternoon or weekend you will usually see a gang of boys (including my sons) in one of three yards playing sports, chasing the dog, jumping on the trampoline, having Airsoft wars, exploring the woods, climbing trees, swimming, and biking.  The other day my friend down the street looked out her window and counted eleven boys in her yard!

I love watching them play from the sidelines.  We adults don't babysit or interfere unless someone gets hurt.  And by hurt I don't mean kids hurting kids, but rather kids falling out of trees (Imp), spraining fingers on the trampoline (Duke), getting cuts on feet from running around barefoot, etc.  Normal kid stuff.  The bigger kids keep an eye on the little kids (as do the adults of course) and the kids work out their issues on their own.  If someone gets mad (which occasionally happens) the upset kid usually just heads on home to sulk for a while before coming back as if nothing had happened.

Most school afternoons around 5:00 Duke and Imp head out on their bikes to find someone out and about.  They aren't picky who they play with or what they do, they just want to hang out with their friends.  I tell them a time to be home, Duke sets his watch alarm, and they play until they are completely exhausted and come home sweaty, dirty, and happy.

I know that not everyone lives in a kid-friendly neighborhood like mine (nor wants to!).  We used to live on 17 acres in a semi-rural area.  We had chickens, fields, and a pond (which we all loved), but the neighbors were scarce and never home, and the boys and I would get lonely...  I do miss living on the farm, but now we have a decent-sized yard, a wooded creek a short walk away, and lovely neighbors. The boys are thriving AND getting "socialized", unlike our sweet dog Blackberry who thrives but continues to hate all other dogs...

I am sure there are homeschooled kids out there that are lonely and friendless because they live somewhere isolated, have parents who ignore them,  or aren't involved in any co-ops/social gatherings.  But I also know there are public and private-schooled kids that are lonely and don't feel they fit in, even though they are surrounded by kids all day long.  I was one of those kids when I went to school. But luckily when I got home I was surrounded by my neighborhood friends who accepted me as I was, warts and all.  ;-)

Homeschooling isn't for everyone, but shouldn't the same be said about school?  I would love to hear your thoughts on children socialization in the comments.  

Do you want to download my favorite CoffeeShop PSE/Photoshop Actions and Lightroom Presets or Design Elements in one convenient zipped file AND help support this blog? Just click here for my action pack or here for a download of some of my most popular design elements, storyboards, and textures.

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